I'm a sext messenger...

Definitions of sexting from Urban Dictionary

v: When a guy and a girl send dirty text messages back and fourth to each other. Pictures may also be included but only if you're lucky!

Guy: I wanna fuck you so bad right now
Girl: Oh same here...How are you gonna do it?
Guy: Well first i would......
Girl: Oh yes! keep talkin."

v: To have an arousing conversation through dirty text messages for sexual delight."

v: Like phone sex except through texting."

Lets talk about sexting bae-by...I don't mean the 20/20, Headline News, Dateline study of sexting. We're not high school students here. We're a group of legal adults who pay for their own phone bills. Well, I hope we all do anyway.

I enjoy a sext message session every now and then. I think it's fun! Especially if you can find a good person to do it with. There are selfish sexters just like there are selfish sexers. Sexting for me, is a fun way...well...to masturbate with someone. I have an ex that I like to sext with. We've been doing it for years. It's never been a verbal phone sex situation. In fact, we've gotten off of the phone, specifically so we can sext. Was it awkward at first? Yes, of course it was. Sex isn't just about touching and humping someone. It isn't for me anyway. I am just as turned on by you telling me what you're going to do before you actually do it. Not like an instruction manual. I want to be sexted before the clothes come off and we're anywhere near the bedroom. In a bar while we're hanging out with a group of friends, as we're on the way to meet each other, at work, or even in the middle of dinner together.

Wanna sext but don't know where do start? There are multiple types of sexts. Text, picture and video. I'm a text and/or picture. Tell me what you're gonna do, tell me what you want me to do, where, when and how. "I'm putting my cock inside your pussy." No...no, you're not. You're 900 miles away. Use you're imagination. You know what you want to do in bed. That's where I start. We all know what we like and what we don't like. It's the same with sexting you're just doing it verbally.

Not so sure about sending that half naked picture? Then definitely don't do it. Especially when you decide to look back at the conversation the next day. Sexting is probably still going to continue without the picture. He's already using his imagination and thinking about all the way he wants to twist your body. He'll keep using that imagination. Ladies, you aren't the only ones that can send a pic. Your male sexter can send a pic as well. Just be prepared for that peen shot. It can be a little shocking when you see it. Especially if you're in the middle of a bar when he decides to slip out and send you that hard shot.

You'd probably be surprised at how many of your friends sext...or maybe not. Maybe you hang with a particularly prudish crowd. In my opinion it's fun and I think everyone should try it. At least once. That one time may make you want to do it twice. I definitely think it should be tried for those in long distance relationships or have a hot someone traveling for work.

Please remember that these are text messages. They can be shown. You may or may not trust someone enough for sexting. Some guys are ass holes. Some of those same guys don't want to look at porn. They want to look at women they know. I have a friend that has pictures of 11 naked girls on his phone. Does he show them to other people...no. They're just for him.

REMEMBER TO LOCK YOUR PHONE! I've seen my little brothers ex girlfriends tits thanks to an unlocked phone. If you don't want to lock it then DELETE DELETE DELETE!

If you don't want to sex, then don't sext. If you don't like the idea, and don't wan to do it. Then don't do it. My opinion is that you're missing out. Nothing wrong with being a little verbally slutastic but hey that's just my view.